Severing relationship ties may not always be the best move. We often act out of emotional surge such as anger, jealousy, spite and the likes, which are momentary and we often end up wishing we had thought it through or perhaps spoken to the right person about the situation in order to get the most reasonable advice for your relationship. There are several steps to take in getting your ex back but because of the disparities in human behavior and temperament, not all tactics or strategies would be useful for all situations.
However, some have proven to be quite effective and on many occasions have led to the beginning of a new and long lasting relationship. Here are a few necessary steps on how to get your ex back.
This may seem odd but exuding self-confidence works. It sends out a message of independence and strength showing that you have the ability to thrive on your own and your happiness isn’t hinged on that person’s presence or approval, so go about your regular activities in full confidence and succeed at what you do. This would rattle them a little and gain their curiosity as to why you are not as miserable as they had hoped.
Keep Communications Lines Open
Always pick his or her calls and reply text messages as cheerful as you can, never sound moody, desperate or too concerned. Never turn down a meeting date. This would show that you are open to renegotiations and possibilities.
There is nothing as attractive as making a spontaneous fashion statement. Get into yourself for once. Go shopping, buy the best outfit you can, have a makeover, workout more often. Your ex would see you as the best version of who you are and would instantly want you back.
These steps are guaranteed to get you closer to your ex in the hope of a better long lasting relationship.